I have always found it interesting how a badly worded question can lead many highly educated people to vastly different answers. A recent posting on Coding Horror by its author Jeff Atwood has gained more comment posts than any other article: http://www.codinghorror.com/blog/archives/001204.html
The question was:"Let's say, hypothetically speaking, you met someone who told you they had two children, and one of them is a girl. What are the odds that person has a boy and a girl?"
So - what's the Answer?
Simple answer is that the question is too ambiguous to be definative.
He is intending to say “What is likelihood of a parent with two children having mixed sex siblings, where the children aren’t two boys?”
Answer: 2/3
My interpretation of his current question is: “What is the likelihood of a parent with two children, one or more of which is a girl has the other child as a boy?”
Answer 1/2
That is – in the first one we are focused on the probabilities of parents that don’t have all boy siblings while in the second one we are focused on the probability that a girl has a brother (parent focus versus child focus).
What’s the difference? In the first case, 50% of all parents with 2 children have mixed sex siblings, while 50% have either all boys or all girls. Remove parents with all boys and you are left with 66.67% of parents have mixed sex siblings and 33.33% have all girls. In the second case, 50% of all girls have a brother and 50% have a sister.
The question has been roundly condemned as being ambiguous at best and seriously erroneous at worst. In fact, many people have provided links dating back well before this post with very similar questions and deconstruct why they are misleading and wrong, and how important the correct language is.For example, some have argued that saying “and ONE of them is a girl” means that the other MUST be a boy. Nowhere does it say “one or more”, and if you were to take the logic that “one” actually does mean “one or more” then you would similarly have to assume that saying they had “two children” must also mean they had “two or more children”.The debate went on and on, backwards and forwards. Eventually most people realised that the debate was almost entirely over interpretations.
Never have I seen an example that so clearly demonstrated how important clear language is. But it isn't all Jeff's fault - he tends to be somewhat of a plagiariser and word has it that the question is straight out of the book he was reading. A plagiarised question doesn't make it correct - so the blame must bubble up back to the authors of the book. However - shouldn't Jeff also be held to account for the plagiarism (let alone copyright violations of using whatever images take his fancy). Whatever the case - that's another topic all together.
Further details of the "Boy Girl Paradox"can be found here: